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ADHD Masking at Work: Why Being Direct Backfires (and What to Do Instead)
In meetings, Slack messages, or quick feedback moments, you might find yourself thinking: “I’m just trying to be honest, but every time I speak up, it backfires.” “I’m tired of walking on eggshells just to be ‘professional.’” “I don’t even know what version of myself is acceptable at work anymore.” For many adults with ADHD, especially in professional settings, being direct can often be misinterpreted as “rude,” “too intense,” or “inappropriate.” Direct communication can be a

Rebecca Branham
6 days ago4 min read


ADHD and Negative Self-Talk: How to Spot and Reframe Cognitive Distortions
If you’ve ever caught yourself saying things like “I should be more productive,” or “It’s just an email, why is this so hard?”, you’ve experienced how language can subtly lower your motivation. When you have ADHD, motivation is already a touchy subject. It can take all of our energy to complete a “simple” task that takes five minutes. We also tend to be hard on ourselves, and it shows up in our self-talk. The words we use are tiny cues that shape how we think, feel, and act.

Agave Health Team
Mar 34 min read


Staying on Top of Your Inbox When You Have ADHD (and RSD)
Managing the influx of emails, texts, and messages can feel like a full-time job of its own, especially when you’re living with ADHD. Add in the emotional sensitivity of rejection - sensitive dysphoria (RSD), where communication can feel loaded with meaning, judgment, or rejection, and staying on top of your inbox can quickly feel daunting. If you’ve ever opened a message and felt your stomach drop before you even read it, or left texts unread because you’re worried what they

Rebecca Branham
Jan 234 min read


ADHD and Anticipatory Anxiety: When “What If” Takes Over
Have you ever noticed that the anxiety before something happens feels worse than the thing itself? Maybe it is a meeting later today, an upcoming trip, a hard conversation, waiting on test results, or even a weather event. Your body feels tense, your mind keeps running scenarios, and no amount of logic seems to calm it down. Then, once the moment finally arrives, the anxiety eases or disappears entirely. For many adults with ADHD, this experience has a name: anticipatory anxi

Agave Health Team
Jan 233 min read


ADHD at Work: Just Got Laid Off…Now What?!
Losing a job is destabilizing for anyone, but for adults who are laid off with ADHD, the experience can hit with extra force. The sudden loss of structure, identity, income, and routine, combined with ADHD-related challenges like rejection sensitivity (RSD) , emotional dysregulation , and difficulty shifting attention, can feel like the bottom drops out from under you. If you’ve just been laid off, or fear one may be coming, take heart: this moment does not define you, and t

CJ Pringle
Dec 30, 20253 min read


The Power of Emotion Recognition in ADHD: Name It to Navigate It
Have you ever felt overwhelmed, stuck, or on edge without knowing exactly why? For many people, especially those with ADHD, emotions can feel like a fast-moving current. You are swept up in frustration, shame, guilt, or anxiety before you have had a chance to stop and ask: What am I actually feeling? Emotion recognition in ADHD refers to the ability to identify and name what you are feeling in the moment. This is where emotional recognition becomes an essential skill. When yo

Rebecca Branham
Dec 17, 20253 min read
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